We all crave intimacy, need to love and be loved in return. So why do we have much dang trouble doing so?
How did you choose your boyfriend/girlfriend, husband or wife?
What did ya look for?
Besides great eyes and hair. Heh.
Did you take note of some of these indicators of what’s to come?
His or her Politics: (Loony) Liberal or (sane able to reason properly) Conservative?
Her Faith. Was it strong? Is yours? Did that matter to you?
Money, money, money:
Is he reckless, does she save or spend spend spend?
How does he react when under stress?
How well does he communicate? Does she listen when you try to express yourself? Do you feel ignored or discounted?
What seem to be his priorities? Is it always about work, or does “family” and your relationship take first place?
Does he take pride in how he looks…ok guys don’t answer that. ha.
Does she stay fit and healthy and care about her appearance?
Word from the sometimes, most of the time, oftentimes wise. Heh
Choose your partner well.
We are attracted to people for all kinds of reasons.
You can be attracted to someone who reminds you of someone in your past, without even being consciously aware of it.
They may shower you with gifts or make you feel special or even…important.
Just remember: Apply the same rules to a future husband/wife, girlfriend or boyfriend as you would a friend.
Examine their personality, values, their overall qualities, and most of all– their relationship with others and with God.
Know your own needs. If you don’t: Find them out.
Your partner can’t always win at the “guessing game”, so try not to put him or her through it.
Always show respect. Your’e a team, and at all times, try to act like one.
Talk, talk and talk some more.
Sorry fellas. Ha.
Explore, don’t assume.
Whatever you do….Do not mistaken physical attraction for..Love.
Sooooooo, what’s the secret sweet friends?
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