Women and Men are Different: Uh huh

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What’s so scary about feminism? raises some important questions.

“WASHINGTON – The other day at work, some colleagues and I were discussing a chain restaurant known for its scantily clad waitresses.

I was taken aback for a moment. “They have the best sports bar in my area,” one person said. “I hear they have great Buffalo wings,” said another.
It was a moment of disconnect.
“But how can anyone go to places like that?” I asked. “What about the objectification of women’s bodies?”

The what of the who?
My colleagues, many of them young enough to be my offspring, gave me puzzled, bemused looks
…”

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I empathize, trust me.

Theoretically, Feminism is the theory that men and women should be equal politically, economically and socially.
But things are not always as “theoretical” in Life as we wish them to be.idea

The Feminist movement, in its inception offered enticing,promises to women. “I am Woman, Hear me Roar“.

“Women are the same as Men..and can Therefore “have it all”!

Pursuits, which emphasized self-sufficiency, individualism, and being in the Workplace were supposed to enhance a woman’s “quality of life”, revolutionize her otherwise drab and mundance existence as a “homemaker’ formerly known as a “housewife and mother.”

By the same token, it was argued that some people aren’t cut out physically to be a fire fighter, serve in combat, or be construction workers. But some are physically capable. Gender should not even come into play as the jobs should be open to all people .

Those men and women who are physically capable and want to, should have every right to pursue such jobs.

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Again no note of psychological constitution, as this is considered completely irrelevant.

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Men and women were brainwashed that aside from some inconsequential, culturally exaggerated, biological differences, – men and women are fundamentally the same.

This has of course encouraged the culture of promiscuity, which may not stigmatize men but serves to notoriously degrade and demean women.

For starters,when it comes to the ahem…”liberation” of the workplace, women have discovered that in fact they do not have an inexhaustible supply of physical and emotional energy that enable them to juggle a career, family, friendships and life!

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Child rearing and homemaking were exclusive roles for a reason. They are full time, exhausting roles. The added burden that many women feel of “having” to work in order to be valued..or even the ones working for the intellectual, financial and emotional fulfillment experience tremendous stress.

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And what is the politically Incorrect nasty little Truth about women and their sexual lives that make them so different than men?..

The truth is that women can’t separate sex from love in the manner that men can.
That’s right I said it.razz

If they tell you they can they are lying to themselves as well as to you.

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For women, sex needs to be an expression of love and some form of commitment. Always. Not sometimes.

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Women “offer” their bodies, but along with that..they unconsiously offer a part of their souls.

A man frequenting a restaurant with scantily-clad women?..(who unknowingly exploit the most precious parts of their womanhood)..is in collusion and taking something from that woman she should have been taught not to “sell” and he should have been taught,- “not to take”.

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Men and women were both endowed with unique God-given strengths. If channelled properly they can both bring glory to God and the World, not to mention- boundless joy and fulfillment to one another.

What’s good for the ‘goose’ is most certainly not good for the ‘gander’, which is why the Good Lord made both to begin with.

“Quack Quack”.

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21 Responses to “Women and Men are Different: Uh huh”

  1. Gramma2many says:

    So thrilled to have found you. Your truth is so untarnished. Keep up the great work.
    I would be more than thrilled if you thought I were worthy of being added to your blog roll.
    Thanks:)

  2. Krystal says:

    That was so wonderfully written and perfectly stated! I’m going to print it out and put it on my wall for my children to see each day!!!

  3. Debbie says:

    Women are more prone to connect love with sex and sex with love. They are more prone than men, but not as much as in the past.

    What I can’t figure, Angel, is why so many men feel the need to view pornography when they have beautiful wives who love them dearly. It’s like a disease for some. They have this compulsion to look at images of other women, and these days with the internet it is so easy for them. Just turn on the computer and at their fingertips are all forms of media, video, audio, one-on-one interaction with some woman out there.

    I just don’t understand it. If these men knew how their actions hurts their wives would they stop? The answer is no.

    And yes men, the wives know, they ALWAYS know.

    Makes those of us who have Christian Godly husband so very thankful.

  4. silverfiddle says:

    Awesome post! Loved the ending. You are so right.

    “A man frequenting a restaurant with scantily-clad women?..(who unknowingly exploit the most precious parts of their womanhood)..is in collusion and taking something from that woman she should have been taught not to “sell” and he should have been taught,- “not to take”.”

    Growing up in the male-dominated culture, the girls were taught this, but not the boys.

    I teach both my daughters AND sons this. Disrespect your body, disrespect others, and you are ultimately disrespecting God.

  5. William Stout says:

    Feminism has wrought many of the ills which society now faces. NOW and company has made some progress for women, but at what cost? I am old fashioned and my views are better suited to the ‘40’s than to today, but I cannot help, but to feel that we are not better off than was our grandparents regarding the gender issue. Where women were once the cement that bound the family and community together, now there is nothing. Men were taught to respect and honor women, to open doors for them, and to rise when they entered a room. We no longer do these things. Teachers are told that children will spend more time with them than with their parents and so their influence will be greater and children will give their teacher’s words more credence than the words of their parents. I think that the price for progress may have been a little steep because ultimately it was respect that was bartered for equality.

  6. radar says:

    Angel, I love you! As a friend, that is…

    One reason pornography is a problem is that sexuality has been taken off of the top shelf and moved to the markdown rack. When virginity was something to be proud of and respected. When a woman could trust her man and vice versa not to cheat on the marriage because they were both able to put off sex with each other until the wedding night, those kinds of marriages are more likely to stand.

    Now Christians have sex before marriage when they become engaged because “I have found my one person.” Oh yeah? What kind of excuse and rationalization will your spouse use five years from now when you find out he is cheating?

    We have lost the fight for chastity before marriage and now we are losing the fight for marriage itself. We have lost the fight for sanctity of life before birth. I say we agree that the fight was lost but the battle is just begun! I am in the fight!!!

  7. chezwick says:

    Particularly detestable is the feminist abandonment of their Muslim sisters under the banner of multiculturalism. I read one screed by a feminist Professor who links Islamic misogyny not to Quran 4.34, the numerable Hadiths that denigrate women, and a 1400-year history of female subservience, but rather to – get this – the post-traumatic aftereffects of colonialism on the psyche of the Muslim male. It’s this kind of nonsense that has made modern feminism such a joke.

  8. MK says:

    “This has of course encouraged the culture of promiscuity, which may not stigmatize men but serves to notoriously degrade and demean women.”

    I wouldn’t be surprised if the feminist movement was initiated by some fellow looking to sleep around, what better way than to make women believe that sleeping around is something to aspire to.

  9. Bunni says:

    Hi Angel!
    Women’s lib has NOT helped the average woman. They were sold a bill of goods, and now work 2 jobs, in and out of the home. Men & Women will always be different in the feelings and “wiring”. There still is a double standard, and of course women are given the short end of the stick.
    I hope you have a nice weekend, and enjoy the good things in life.

  10. z says:

    So well put, ANgel! Recently, I was pondering that women are now okay to serve on submarines and thought how wrong it is on so many levels I almost can’t count. Seems like our society’s doing its damndest to cheapen womanhood…….I wonder what high school girls THINK when they see beautiful films like the original PRIDE AND PREJUDICE, where women are bright and beautiful and men are falling over themselves to get their attention..to win them over! Today, it’s so different and so sad. Super post.

  11. Snarky Basterd says:

    Thank God for differences between the sexes. I’d really hate to be screwing someone who looks like me.

    Have a great weekend, Angel.

  12. jadedfellow says:

    Where has Love gone?

    Was given a thought that states it well, Whatever It Is give it, so you can be Doing Something Right.

    Gotta love em, cherish em, honor em, die for em, die for em agin, worship em, praise em, for betta, for worse, yah gotta git to know em for who they are.

    Man to Man – wake up! Adam and Eve, Boaz and Ruth, Soloman and his Queen, Christ and his Bride, yah gotta find a brown eyed girl and love her to your death.

    Or else you will find yourself with a Abolsalom and Tamar.

  13. KarL M says:

    Nail on the head again Angel….GODlike may i add.
    It never ceases to amaze and amuse me that this debate even exists..
    (see Genesis1:21-24 below)..
    GOD “separates” Eve from Adam, the humanity is the same..the roll,the purpose,the existence are distinct..
    That man choses to disrespect his equal is a reflection on man. For man to FAKE blindness to the obvious differentences is the excuse his inner animal must use to justify his actions..Remember Angel, at no time does THE TRUTH get in the way of a good time…

    Genesis1:21-24
    So the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and while he slept took one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh; 22and the rib which the Lord God had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man. 23Then the man said, “This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. ” 24Therefore a man leaves his father and his mother and cleaves to his wife, and they become one flesh

  14. Karen Howes says:

    Excellent, Angel, and spot on. So-called feminism is, among other things, the refusal to acknowledge that men and women are different. Implicit in its creed is that femininity is inferior to masculinity, since women need to be more masculine in order to be “equal.”

    Oh, and I think we shouldn’t be allowed to vote.

  15. Donna says:

    Really enjoy your point of view on the issues facing us today! Keep on telling it like it is….

  16. Matt says:

    Well said Angel. I, for one, am very glad for the differences between the sexes.

  17. Mr. Shife says:

    Another great post Angel. Thanks for sharing your wisdom with us. And I only go to the restaurants with scantily-clad women because the wings are really, really good. =)

  18. C-Christian Soldier says:

    keep telling it like it is!!!
    Hugs-
    carol-CS

  19. Brooke says:

    Good post, as always, Angel!

  20. Dapoppins says:

    Perfectly said.

  21. slamdunk says:

    Wow you nailed this complex subject with an informative post. Nicely done.